Short Book-Why you are still single & unmarried as a woman over 20 yrs of age. The Jewish prophetic Torah understanding pt 1 & 2


By Rabbi Cohen Shalomim Y. HaLahawi MD(Hom), PsyD, NMD. MA(Rabbinical Studies), BC-OMD, DFM, DPH, DAAIM
Socio-Political Prophetic Leader of the Global Edenic Civilization Chief Global Rabbinical Representative of Israel, Jewish Priest, Physician & Author
Mizrahi Jewish Int’l Rabbinical Council United Nations Dept of Economic and Social Affairs…
Ha’ Yisrayli Torah Brith Yahad Member of the Pooran Society Welfare (Pakistan)-Registered Global Peace Ambassador

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Key Text: Talmud Kiddushin 29b, “Raba said, and the School of R. Ishmael taught likewise: Until the age of twenty, the Holy One, blessed be He, sits and waits. When will he take a wife? As soon as one attains twenty and has not married, He exclaims, ‘Blasted be his bones!’

Introduction by Rabbi Cohen

Shalom to everyone. I decided to share this article which is actually a sectoin of my next book to be published in order to help many understand why they are still single & over the age of 20. This is shared from a Mizrahi Jewish Wisdom perspective, yet the principles are universal as it relates to the Torah & Human behavior

This article as well as others I may publish can also help many observe & see the “character & integrity” level of those who may read this, half-way read it or just want to comment, as to whether such persons have respect, decency, courtesy and are able to simply communicate and articulate their comments with or without cussings, insulting, being disrespectful or trashing this short book even if they did not read it..

This is a Jewish short book written from a spiritual-cultural leadership authority & is one of many understandings rooted in actual principles, laws and value systems that has given our people definition, identity and culture which has kept us alive, strong, prosperous and well for almost 6000yrs, out surviving, along side our blood brothers and sisters the Arabs, every major culture, civilization, ethnic groups that has ever existed.

And still today our people represent some of the strongest, united and empowered people on the planet. While being not even 1% of the world population we have stood up as one of the most powerful and influential people on the planet. That is because we adhere to strong traditions, laws, customs, knowledge and wisdom that was designed specifically for us to become empowered & remain on top, and not below, the lenders and not the borrowers and to live up to the promise our Eternal Creator gave to our father Abraham where we walk in his image and likeness and through this living prophetic promise we literally live off the strength and power of Elah.

We are the people whose communities in America and around the world are untouchable and without brokenness, drugs, disease, poverty, STD outbreaks, uncleanliness and economic disadvantages. Where our children actually receive an inheritance that is passed on from generation to generation, and who are raised by two or more parents(i.e polygany), void of single-parent homes, welfare, illiteracy, crime, drugs & chaos that plagues other ethnic groups and communities. Where we are able to provide the best education opportunities for our children and ensure they pursue their purpose and calling via the best Academic institutions on the planet. Where they understand the importance of aligning only with the empowered and/or those seeking empowerment and are working hard to reach such levels, and to always use knowledge and wisdom to protect their inheritance from mediocre people who have little to offer but is motivated and driven by a nature that take take takes.

We have proven that we as a people are in fact the leaders, priests and holy nation before all other nations, peoples & ethnic groups & are able to bring something to the table to offer and teach others who may be lacking in those things necessary to bring forth true and genuine empowerment that in turn fuels the foundations of family building and centering ones life on being a united community that ensures we have an environment that produces nothing less than greatness.

And I want to encourage people to sit and understand that before you can resolve the problem of not being able to find the person(s) destined to be in your life & designed to co-build with you, you have to go back and look at the root problem that in fact may be the underlying cause for your failures, struggles and inability to find what you need to build what you desire.

As an integrative physician, I understand the wisdom and principles of successful medical practice in that before the disease can ever be treated and cured properly so that its eradicated and not just covered up(which then come back as a worse ailment), we must first diagnose(judge) and find the underlying cause of the symptoms. We have to discern(judge) everything that is interrelated and gives definition to the specific disease or diseases. Once we find the underlying cause, we have to explain our diagnosis and the problem to the patient, as well as point out their own behavioral, dietary, and lifestyle choices that may be the factor contributing to their disease and we have to tell them to change such behaviors if they expect to heal properly with the proper therapeutic regimen/prescriptions. And many times our diagnosis and news to the patient is unpleasant, bad, scary and horrifying and can evoke strong emotions of anger, feeling condemned, tears, crying, and most of all humility.

Well, that is what is necessary to help bring about balance, healing & adjustments to one’s life, and the changes required to remove the stumbling block that is preventing love, family building and relationship prosperity. It is this latter(humility) that is the key to beginning the process of healing & evolving because it allows the patient(disciple or reader) to hear the physician(or leader) & submit to the process so they can successfully make it through to have the weeds rooted out of their life.

You need Spiritual Leadership or even friends or those you look up to, who have matured & speak with genuine wisdom and knowledge to challenge you to go back and look at everything you’ve done in your life and measure those things against actual principles, divine and sacred laws and wisdom that has stood the test of time, such as Biblical-Jewish law, Islamic-Koranic Laws, Buddhist or Hindi principles or whatever culture, religion or value system you adhere to and of which gives you identity.

That is what this article and all of my articles are really about. Helping you to judge and discern for yourself and measure your life against the divine laws of the Eternal Creator. And yes they are designed to hit nerves as when you are reading and something hits a nerve, which provokes an emotion from you, then that is the area of your life you need to judge and discern. But always remember, Satan is always going to be there to try to channel your nerve being hit while reading towards a negative reaction which either leads to you shutting down(a form of denial), calling the article or author crazy, BS, lies etc, or claiming you disagree but cannot offer an intellectual or more solutional alternative rebuttable or perspective(claiming to disagree with someone while simultaneously not being able to back up your disagreement is a character problem related to haughtiness) or out-right outbursts with cursing, disrespect, contempt and disregard. All of these that could manifest are the areas of your life that needs to be judged, discerned and fixed. As how you respond to a button that is pushed in your life, due to something you read or heard that doesn’t align with your way of thinking, reveals alot about you in how you’d act and respond in a relationship with your significant other…. If you can disrespect a Spiritual authority, even from another faith or culture, then you surely will do worse towards your spouse…….

I pray some of you will study this two part short book with integrity, decency & a sincere desire to learn & understand a different perspective from your own, and give it a chance to help you fix you, change you & prosper you for the better by identifying the problems that have taken root in your life & blocked you from greatness and empowerment to attract the people who belong in your life to build the family you desire.

Just remember, before you can ever resolve a problem, you have to first discern, identify and judge the problem(aka diagnose). No matter how bad it sounds, no matter how condemned you may feel or how many buttons and nerves were hit, you have to be willing to submit, let humility reign & be determined to destroy these stumbling blocks and roots so that you can evolve from everything written herein.

Identifying the Problem & the roots to the problem

Think of the Torah Law and the reality of this one verse in what it reveals:

Deut 24:1 “When a man takes a wife and shall marry her, then it shall be, if she finds no favour in his eyes because he has found a matter of uncoveredness in her, and he shall write her a certificate of divorce, and put it in her hand, and send her out of his house, Deu 24:2 and if she left his house and went and became another man’s wife, Deu 24:3 and the latter husband shall hate her and write her a certificate of divorce, and put it in her hand, and send her out of his house, or when the latter husband dies who took her to be his wife, Deu 24:4 then her former husband who sent her away is not allowed to take her back to be his wife after she has been defiled, for that would be an abomination before יהוה. And do not bring sin on the land which יהוה your Elohim is giving you as an inheritance.

While this verse is clearly about a Covenant relationship/Marriage, we do find this one thing that will forever change a person’s understanding about “the original will and purpose” Elah as established for Relationships. It speaks of the fact that a man who breaks up with his wife(or literally woman in Hebrew, as there is no Hebrew word or equivalent for wife in the Torah) cannot ever take her back “after” she’s been in a relationship, especially if it was sexual, with another man, irregardless if that man died or they broke off the relationship.

The reason it gives is because she’s been “DEFILED”.
Defiled is the Biblical Chaldean word “Tawme”, which means literally “to be contaminated, polluted or ritually unclean”. The big issue here is that this is being applied to a woman who gets into what “appears” to be a legitimate relationship and even gets married, “after” she’s broken up with her “original man.” The Eternal Creator further see’s such a woman going “back” to her original man after she’s been sexual with another man, as being an “abomination..”

Let clarify some words and definitions that are not properly communicated in English from the Hebrew text to put this into full perspective. Wife is the Hebrew word is the Hebrew word “Ishah or Nashiym”, which means “woman or women” in general, just as man is the Hebrew word “Ish”. There is no Hebrew word that is equivalent to the English wife. They in fact do not even have the same meaning nor connotations. Thus every scripture translated as “wife” is a blatant mistranslated & misapplication of the true essence and understanding of what the text is really trying to communicate.

Married is the hebrew word “Ba’al” which means “to be mastered. lorded or ruled over” This is the same word used to translate the word “husband”. In Essene, Enochic, Netzarim and/or Mizrahi Judaism we use Adon to refer to the husband and this is what a woman uses to address her man at all times rather than calling him by his first name.. Both Ba’al and Adon means “Master or to be head of”. Ba’al was originally a Cana’anite/Phoenician word which was a reference to their god named Baal(or Bel), but also used in general to refer to a man who was the master or head of the woman or women he was in a “covenant relationship with”. Like Adon, the word was also in reference to addressing elders and leaders similar to Mister in English. Mister in English is in fact a variation of the word “Master”. Thus the idea of calling a man Master should not be an issue, considering the common reference of calling a man Mister in general usage in society.

This is where the teachings of the proper order of the family, with the man being “the head” of the household and the “the head” of the relationship/marriage. This is also why women take on the “name” or “tribal name”of the man in whom she submits herself too. She submits to and is ruled or mastered over by her Adon/Ba’al. The scriptures elsewhere further clarify the fact that Hebrew relationships are not compatible with the English translations and definitions of marriage, as evidence in Deuteronomy:

Deu 22:22 “When a man is found lying with a woman married to a husband………” Deu 22:23 “When a girl who is a maiden is engaged to a husband.…….”

The Hebrew word married to a husband is “Ba’al Ba’al” or literally “mastered over by a Master” or “Mastered/ruled over by her head or Lord”. The Hebrew Word for The Hebrew Word for Engaged to a Husband is “Erush Ish” or literally “engaged to a man” As can be seen here, there are clearly gross mistranslation of Hebrew words using “husband” to translate them in an attempt to try to force Hebrew culture to align with American/Western ideals of what constitutes marriage when in truth it just does not have much commonality.

Erush is also where we get the word “Erushin” which is engagement. In Essene Jewish culture, after a courtship or M’qadesh between a man and a woman/women, which is up to 9 months and no more, the couple enters into the 1st stage of Covenant Relationship known as “Erushin or engagement” for 3 years. This is known as a trying time where the couple tests their relationship to determine whether a woman is capable of conceiving and birthing children, tribal alliances between the families of the man and woman, and building a proper family and home structure under the guidance of the elders of the community which may also include marriage pastoral counseling etc etc….

A woman is then offered a ketubah contract during the 3rd year. This is when the 2nd phase of the Covenant relationship is implemented, known as the Nissuin(marriage). After 4 years of Nissuin and Erushin, which is 7 years, the couple actually has a 7 day marriage ceremony and celebration for “perfecting” their “covenant relationship”, thus marking the 3rd and final stage of developing a true covenant relationship before Yahwah Elah.

What also needs to be understood is that “engagement/betrothal” and “to be mastered over” hold the same weight in value and principle. To break off an engagement, one would have to get a divorce known in Hebrew as a “GET”..

Also, there are instances where a woman is permanently betrothed to a man. There are no differences as ultimately she is mastered over by the head of her life. Thus in the proper context of the Duetoromy passage, this is a man who takes a woman and becomes the “head of her life” and of which she is supposed to be his and of which she is supposed to be his helpmeet. And while it no doubt can refer to marriage, it has a much broader meaning. It can also refer to a woman who is his female servant, male servant, a concubine or a maiden. As he is the Master, (Ba’al, Adon) of all of this.

The origins of the Ba’al is traced back to the Genesis story(Genesis 3:16) of Adam and Chawwah(Eve) who had sinned against Elah, prompting Elah to issue a punishment that created a change in the relationship status of the man in relationship to the woman and the woman’s status in relationship to the man. She was originally designed to be his helpmeet, not his servant, and he was originally designed to be her head, not her ruler. Yet because she stepped outside of her original design and instigated the situation that led to the destruction of the Edenic Family, her role was reduced from being a counter-part and helpmeet, as she no longer represented Adam in the way a woman is designed to represent her man.

The difference between a woman who is a servant to a man and a woman who is a Helpmeet to her man is in the fact that a servant is not a standard by which a man can be measured as it relates to covenant relationships, no one looks at the servant to see if they can see the quality of the man by way of the fact that a servant is an automatically inferior state of being, Whereas a woman who is a helpmeet and counterpart is designed to be a public and private representative of her man. She is his express image and likeness. The credibility and legitimacy of a man and especially a Leader who teaches important principles is ultimately determined, in the eyes of the masses, by the quality or lack thereof of the lifestyle and fruits his woman/women produce.

A true helpmeet upholds the values, principles and image of her man, and looks like what he teaches. At any time she steps outside of her role, she ceases to be a true helpmeet, thus becoming a “matter of uncoveredness” in which a man is supposed to send away, as if a man keeps a woman as his helpmeet who fails to fulfill the role of the helpmeet then ultimately she is going to undermine whatever it is he does or teaches if he is a leader. And she can and will ultimately destroy the man and all he does…

Thus with this understanding, Elah placed a two-fold meaning within the understanding of the instructions and definitions of what constitutes a “covenant relationship” between a man and woman/women. That in a fallen state, when the people do not strive to return to the garden of Eden and live according to the holistic Edenic lifestyle, then such covenant relationships are Master-Servant relationships aka Ba’al Ba’al. Such a relationship clearly is not compatible with a woman being able to fulfill the Biblical definition of an “empowered Woman” as found in proverbs 31, a woman who is led and guided by the Holistic Spirit, of whom is able to walk beside her man, but also able to contribute to the relationship economically, spiritually, socially, financially and culturally in such a way that it brings honor to the man Elah has given her to be a helpmeet or in the case of polygany co-helpmeet too.

When a woman is able to live up to her original design and fulfill the definition of proverb 31, then she is no longer operating under the relationship curse of Elah in Genesis chapter 3:16, but under the original Edenic design of Genesis 2:18-25. That is when we see man as the “Head of the Household, family, and relationship”, and the woman(women) as the helpmeets and counterparts, express image of the man, who are empowered and bring honor to the family tribal name…

Now, this takes us to the next definition:

Bill/Certificate of Divorce-is from the Hebrew words that were adopted from the Assyrian language(aramaic) Sepher K’riythuth, which means, document, letter of cutting off, seperation, as in breach of contract or as in a notice of cancellation of a lease or other agreement. K’riythuth is derived from the Hebrew word Karet, which means to cut off. It is popularly known and used in texts where a person is “cut off” from the people of Israel and excommunicated for certain behaviors & actions that grossly violated Torah Law. Thus to translate this as meaning divorce in the American sense is erroneous, as once again the broader meaning does not limit it to “matrimonial marriages”, and in fact includes any type of relationship, especially if its sexual intimacy involved in such relationships.

Under Edenic Law/the laws of nature, man-made ceremonial rituals of “marriage customs” are not distinguishable from that of just having sexual relations in general. Edenic law considers that anyone who engages in sexual activity as entering a “covenant relationship/marriage” whether it be for fun, casual, swinging, or whether it be for bonding, lovemaking and consummating a marriage, all of them are one and the same under the Laws of Nature.

This is why there are no unified customs of marriage ceremonies because Elah is not the one who created marriage ceremonies. Mankind created marriage rituals in order to re-enforce the values and understanding of covenant relationship in order to uphold the Edenic laws and prevent behaviors that violated Edenic law and of which could invoke the “curses for violating Edenic Law” such as STDS, epidemics, plagues & cancers, which is related to Public health, and also to prevent physiological and mental degenerative disease that occurs from violating the “Edenic Tantra” or sacred science of sex, as is taught via medical science, biology, laws of nature, principles and science of energy, as it related to the anatomy & physiology of the human body and sexual design. These violations being linked to bi-polar, mania, chronic depression, disease of the sexual organs, such as prostate cancer, cervical dysplasia, uterine cancer, uterine fibroids, bacteria vaginosis, yeast infections, HPV, HSV, HCV, HIV etc etc….

Thus while marriage customs are man-made, they are nonetheless a righteous and effective way to ensure holistic balance in communities, societies and nations. They are also customs of the expression of deep cultural roots and values. There is no one right way to become married, just as long as Edenic law and cultural values related to ones ethnic and cultural inheritance are upheld.

Yet there are many ways to grossly violate Edenic law, that occur via sexual acts done in ignorance, that chronically causes and invokes marriage and divorce each time one engages in sexual acts with different people. This is the most detrimental to women. As stated previously, the sexual intercourse act is interpreted by natural law as marriage. The subsequent sexual act with a different partner is interpreted by natural law as the subsequent sexual act with a different partner is interpreted by natural law as adultery.

Thus a female who starts having sex at 11 or 12 years old is seen as being married, and thus she doesn’t realize how many marriages and divorces she has initiated during her teen years for every boy she opens her legs to. Thus, not only is she a nymphaha(adulteress aka Nympho) but she also becomes a Zona, which is a whore, because her behavior is associated with disease and public health risks and problems, and boys who engage in sex with her have no clue as to how many adultery acts they have engaged with by having sex with a whore.

Once a person sits down and is taught the “science of sex” & gets the in-depth details of exactly what goes on inside a woman’s body, in her vagina and uterus, when she has sex with different men, then it will become crystal clear why such women are no doubt “Niddah”(unclean) and ultimately are defiled and contaminated, Hebrew “Taw-May”, thus they are not Kosher(to be fit) enough to reproduce and multiply with as it relates to conception and family building.

The interesting thing about the Duet 24 text of the woman having a matter of uncleanliness or uncoveredness in herself, is that the Hebrew definition mentions her Pudendum as being the suspect and problem. The Pudendum is the external genital organs. Thus such a woman had physical problems with her vagina, that were visible. This could be herpes or genital warts(two known diseases that were very common in the Near East, especially in Egypt), vaginitis, staph, gonorrhea, yeast infection, or chlamydia, which are classical signs of STDs, thus making the woman a clear tramp, especially if her husband was not having sex with any other woman in secret on the streets, such as with a Zona(a street whore who has sex and pleasure for money)…

All of these are classified as Abominations, meaning they are “worse than sin” and are disgusting. When one thinks of a woman whose had sex with 10, 20, 30 plus men, if you are in your right mind, you should get nauseous at even thinking of something as filthy and dirty as that. Her vagina and soul are simply just cesspools of filth. The pits of death are there. This is not a woman any Edenic man would want to reproduce with and start a family with. That would be tantamount to taking a garden or purchasing some land that previously had biological, radioactive nuclear waste dumped into it and had tons of dirt to cover it up, resulting in it still being able to grow grass, tree’s etc & even look healthy. And because the land doesn’t look toxic or contaminated and because it appears as healthy and fertile, you go and take seeds and sow them and then expect to get a good yield and crop, and then several years down the line you and your entire family get cancer and other chronic diseases, due to the crop that was harvested being contaminated. Well, that is what your children would be like should you conceive with a whore…

Look around you. 75-85% of black women alone are unable to marry because nobody wants them, as they are contaminated and the single woman epidemic in America has reached catastrophic levels because of this contamination & so are the children born of these women, being raised in single-parent homes, who were conceived in Sin and abomination, outside of true covenant relationships/marriage.

Abomination is the Chaldean Word “To-Ebah”, which means to “be disgusting or abhorrent.” That is worse than just bad or Sin which is Chata(to miss the mark, alter the original, aim wrongly). Elah puts this up on the same level as “Homosexuality/Sodomy”, whoredom and idolatry which are all defined as “an abomination”…

See, unlike the ass-backward lifestyles and beliefs that hetero-sexual, yet religious people live and think like today, Elah is very consistent in how he sees and deals with people. He is a respecter of people in that he shows favoritism to those who are consistent with his Words, while he treats everyone the same when they are not consistent. According to Torah law, a woman whose been re-married to another man after she has a previous failed relationship “that was her fault(i.e. a matter of uncoveredness/ uncleanliness that led to divorce)”, who along with her new man, who is yet a devout Christian, Jew, Muslim or other religion, and finds herself going out & about judging and bashing homosexuals, lesbians, prostitutes, whores and judging other people about their sin(and they are SIN), they are both hypocrites and double standard people, who have zero credibility in their righteousness. Why? Because “she is defiled” and unclean just like the very Homosexuals, whores, prostitutes etc whom she speaks against..

It doesn’t take a theology course to realize that being defiled is a Sin(chata). And it says a lot about the woman and the 2nd(or 3rd) man who married her, in the fact that the thought of her being re-united to her first husband, who is really the rightful Adon of her life, is seen as disgusting to Elah!! If it’s at that level, then clearly her and her 2nd husband are dirty.

When defilement & adultery does not apply to women of a failed relationship or Marriage

I want to point out Halachically that the key to understanding this is when a relationship breaks up and its the “WOMANS FAULT”, is when we really see the Sin and wrong choice of another man marrying or making a covenant relationship with her. However, a woman who has been faithful in her relationship and marriage, yet who is neglected, mistreated, abused, or hurt by some irresponsible Meshugana who’s nothing more than a dog, resulting in their marriage/covenant relationship ending, cannot be condemned and held to this standard of “Defilement” nor “sin” if she enters into a covenant with another man and engages to or marries him, as in the eyes of Elah, she was a faithful servant and helpmeet, who deserves BETTER….

The Torah Law in Shemoth(Exodus) makes this clear:

Exodus 21:7 “And when a man sells his daughter to be a female servant(i.e married), she does not go out as the male servants do. Exo 21:8 “If she is displeasing in the eyes of her master who has engaged her to himself, then he shall let her be ransomed. He shall have no authority to sell her to a foreign people, because of him deceiving her.

Exo 21:9 “And if he has engaged her to his son, he is to do to her as is the right of daughters. Exo 21:10 “If he takes another wife, her food, her covering, and her marriage rights are not to be diminished. Exo 21:11 “And if he does not do these three for her, then she shall go out for naught, without silver.

In another chapter of this Essay, Hebrew Family, the Center of all living, I will present more detailed information on the break down of this heavily mis-translated set of verses into English that misses the essence of the Judaic Law. However, it should already be made clear that this is not a woman whose a servant in the traditional understanding of what a servant is, as evidence she cannot be treated as male servants, who are actual servants-slaves. Plus there are other Torah laws that speak on Male servants being paired up with female servants, which is not the same as this woman spoken of in this text.

This text has to be understood in the fact that the woman being displeasing to the husband in this Law, is NOT the same as the other woman “finding no favor” in Deut 24 because she has been found to have a matter of uncoveredness(which means she changed some-how for the worst that led to the demise of the relationship). As I break down in this book, this woman has to be allowed to be ransomed, if her husband does not want her, meaning given to another man who will pay the brides price for her, that she accepts and wants to be with, because she ended up in a relationship with her husband under “false pretenses” and he either did not make clear his true intentions, or like alot of men do today in western culture, flat out lied to her, wooed her, and suckered her into a relationship he had no intentions of fulfilling with her in the first place. He cannot then treat her like a female slave and try to sell her off, especially outside of her tribe and family, after he gets upset that she doesn’t want to “submit” to him when he’s clearly a dam liar and an illegitimate husband.

So now we are at the place of the legitimacy of the engagement and marriage. A woman does NOT commit adultery if the marriage was not valid in the first place, and a marriage done under deception by the man is not valid according to Torah law.

The Movie The Color Purple ironically is a perfect example of this text. Mister acquiring Celie by deceiving her and her father about his true intentions. Leading her to believe he needs a wife, when in fact he was planning on making her a slave in whom he scorned, beat and treated like some sex object for his own wanton pleasures, while her feelings, likes, needs and desires were irrelevant. And while slaves were allowed in Judaism, the Torah makes it clear that a woman cannot go out as male servants, when a man is acquiring her to be his wife and helpmeet from her father…

In other words, a man cannot get into a relationship with a woman, who consented under the pretense he loved her, would protect her, nurture her, guide her, become one with her and she’d be his queen, and then turn around after she’s come into the home and flip the script and treat her less than a wife, as if she’s a slave-servant, beating on her, not taking care of her, destroying her self esteem and then try to invoke the Law of marriage and adultery when she rejects him and want to be released so she can find and be with another man whose going to be the man he’s supposed to be…..

The Torah in perspective as it relates to Relationships & Sexual Union(The 3 rules required to sustain marriage)

The Torah makes it clear what is expected of a couple once they engage in sexual activity with each other and it being forbidden of them breaking up after such…..

Deutoromy(Debarim) 22:28 “When a man finds a girl who is a maiden, who is not engaged(Torah marriage), and he seizes her and lies with her, and they are found out,
Deu 22:29 then the man who lay with her shall give to the girl’s father fifty pieces of silver, and she is to be his woman because he has humbled her. He is not allowed to put her away all his days.

Under Torah Law there are only 3 reasons that are valid for a “woman” to initiate a removing herself as a helpmeet and no longer being under the authority of her Adon:

Exodus(Shemot) 21:7 “And when a man sells his daughter to be a female servant(maiden), she does not go out as the male servants do.
Exo 21:8 “If she is displeasing in the eyes of her master who has engaged her to himself, then he shall let her be ransomed. He shall have no authority to sell her to a foreign people, because of him deceiving her.
Exo 21:9 “And if he has engaged her to his son, he is to do to her as is the right of daughters.
Exo 21:10 “If he takes another woman, her food, her covering, and her marriage rights are not to be diminished.
Exo 21:11 “And if he does not do these three for her, then she shall go out for naught, without silver.

Diminishing your wife’s/woman food, marriage rights and covering are the only things that can be grounds for a woman breaking a covenant and ending a relationship under Divine social Law. Covering is related to protection and security as well as having a safe home in which she, the husband, and children are to live in. It is also related to a man being able to invest into the spiritual as well as emotional needs of his woman/women. Too many men today, focus more on their penis stroke skills, the dollar amounts they are able to flash and the material side of wooing a woman, and not enough on investing into the “spirit” of their women. You’re not a real man if you can’t invest into your woman’s spirit and heart. 
A man who does not have the knowledge of Yahwah Elah, cannot provide safety and security for his woman and who does not possess his own home, cannot provide a true covering for his woman/wife, as in Mizrahi Jewish Law & halacha men are not supposed to live with women in the woman’s home. The woman is supposed to dwell within the home of the man she makes a covenant with.

Being the Head of the Home also includes home ownership. The owner or lessee is ultimately the head, thus it is out of order when a man lives in the home of a woman, and that woman has the legal authority to control whether that man can and cannot live in that home and she is able to make the man leave the home when things do not go right. That is a gross violation of the order and authority that Elah has established for family building. In fact, under Mizrahi Jewish customs, women are supposed to live in the household of their father or eldest relative until they get engaged to a man. It’s never acceptable for a young single woman to live in her own home, which is considered a form of rebellion and can result in the lifestyle of a Zonah, except that she is widowed and has male sons who are old enough to make adult decisions in the household. As we see, covering relates to security as well. Thus, domestic violence or putting a woman’s life in danger or threat of danger is compromising her security and is thus grounds for “her” initiating a divorce via the petition of a Beth Din(Jewish Court).  

Women nor children should never have to worry about whether the bills are being paid, if there is enough food or any other aspects of life where the two should be working together to maintain a stable home and provide for each other and their children. She should know that because the Adon is doing his part as the leader and head of the home and she is doing her part as a helpmeet in ensuring the provisions of the home are met for the wellbeing of both them and their children, then the fear of lack doesn’t exist and thus the security of the home is not jeopardized.

Proverbs  31:11  The heart of her husband shall trust her, And he has no lack of gain.”

Marriage rights, including the right to “sexual satisfaction”, the right to be nurtured, guided, loved, adored, and cared for emotionally, spiritually, and physically. The marriage rights of a woman also include respecting her wisdom, knowledge,  approval, and agreement with house-hold matters, when it comes to her interest in the wellbeing of the entire family. The Adon is no doubt the head and has the final say, but she also plays a major role in that final say because she is the counterpart to her man, as Elah originally designed her to be. As an example, in polygany, under Mizrahi Jewish Halachic Law, the wife/woman has a right to accept or reject another woman being added to the family, as long as her approval or objection is in accordance with Jewish Laws and customs and is related to the wellbeing, safety and interest of the household over-all(and not out of jealousy, insecurity or selfishness which are demonic character traits) & the husband is obligated to accept her approval or rejection of such an addition. Jealousy, insecurity, selfishness, envy, or rivalry are not acceptable reasons to object to polygamy. Thus, the woman is the one who controls polygany in the Hebrew relationship. Once the additional wife is added, then both must be consulted and must give their approval for any additional woman can be added or with regards to other interests of the home and family.  The Mother also has the right to co-raise her children and instill the proper values of the Torah, as long as she respects and upholds the Torah and does not polarize the children by undermining the foundation that has been laid out by the Adon.

In regards to food, this pretty much overlaps covering. At the same time, food is not just about ensuring she is never hungry or is in need. Food also is about quality and holistic kosher health. Even if she is the one who does the cooking most of the time, the provisions of the type of food counts as well. A man who loves his woman(and vice versa) is going to ensure she eats healthy foods, especially being a vegetarian. Providing pork, shellfish, junk food, processed food and any food that is forbidden is not showing an act of love towards your spouse. In fact, providing foods that are unhealthy, compromises not only her health but also her security and wellbeing and her marital rights, as everyone has a right to be healthy and to have a chance at longevity….

Illicit drugs(including marijuana), cigarettes, vaping, and the use of alcohol, are also categorized under food and diet. I have pointed out in numerous teachings  & publications about how many women in certain ethnic communities, particularly the black American community, are soo strung out on drugs & have given their minds over to satanism in such a way that they literally seek out relationships with men, not on the merits of his character, spiritual foundation, maturity and actual ability at being a true provider, but on how he is able to continue to supply her with drugs and other illicit substances, which basically gives predatory violent men an easy pass and path to ensnaring such women & basically enslaving her via both drug supplies as well as violence, and even in many cases trafficking.

You have men who keep their women high & drunk as a kite 24 hours a day 7 days a week, to her slow detriment and demise, and such women will develop unhealthy destructive soul ties with these men, and as her desires turn towards him. such desires are wrongly translated into love(Oheb). This isn’t love by a long shot(see article Hebrew Love vs Western Love a significant difference for more understanding). These are not real men, these are monsters because this behavior alone violates the fundamental principles of Covenant relationships.

Edenic Design (Lead, guide & nurture) vs The fallen Design( Rule over)

I want to point out something very important that many bible believers miss the mark on constantly with regards to Covenant relationships and this verse:

Genesis 3:16  “To the woman He said, “I greatly increase your sorrow and your conception – bring forth children in pain. And your desire is for your man, and he does rule over you.”

This scripture is NOT the original design of Yahwah Elah for men and women in relationships. Covenant relationships are not supposed to be a ruler-servant styled relationship. This relationship style is a post-Edenic relationship style for “fallen humanity”. Even with natural childbirth, it’s not supposed to be pain & suffering. That is why the healthcare system that Elah gave to mankind via Oriental Medicine(Ayurvedic, Talmudic/Jewish Medicine etc), is able to use acupuncture for women to have pain-less birthings.  Spirit-Led Torah Hebrew men(and ingrafted Torah gentiles) are not supposed to be striving to uphold post-Edenic lifestyles or even the fallen post Edenic diets. We are supposed to be striving to return to Eden(Aden), and live within the constructs of Original design, where men and women function in accordance with the same laws that govern physics, matter, and energy. Where positive(male) polarities) and negative(female) polarities work simultaneously in an equally important role, that produces energy and life, but with a dominant polarity and a recessive polarity. This is how we are supposed to operate as this is how we were designed, which is why we were also given the power to create, to walk in the image and likeness of Elohim(Male & Female), and reproduce children after our likeness and kind. A male alone cannot produce life. A female alone cannot produce life. Only when we become “one” are we able to produce and create life.

Proverbs 3:19 יהוה (a male) founded the earth by Chockimah(a female) He established the heavens by Binah(a female).

So as we see there are deeper meanings to the stipulations of sustaining and maintaining marital covenants. Thus, these three, in their in depth meaning and understanding must be upheld and can never be diminished and if such does occur and is not fixed, then it becomes the bases & legitimate grounds for a woman leaving a man under no fault of her own.

A Hebrew woman initiating a Get in history

As shocking as it may be, there is documented evidence of a woman being able to write a bill of divorce against her husband and it being accepted by a Beth Din, due to the husband not fulfilling the 3 stipulations of marriage.

A Hebrew divorce certificate/ get dating from the early 2nd century was discovered in the Judaean Desert in 1951 & subsequently published till 1995, after deliberately being suppressed. It is called the Sie’elim get, or Papyrus Sie’elim 13. The document implies the ability of Hebrew women to gain a divorce.  In fact, the Mishnah & Elephantine documents also supported the same. This document is addressed to the woman’s husband and is written by a scribe on behalf of the woman, and it uses the language of a standard Hebrew divorce certificates:

On the 20th of Sivan, year 3 of Israel’s freedom. In the name of Simon bar Kosibar, the Nasi of Israel… I do not have… I, Shelamzion, daughter of Joseph Qebshan of Ein Gedi, with you, Eleazar son of Hananiah who had been the husband before this time, that this is from me to you a bill of divorce and release. . . .I do not have with you… Eleazar anything (I wish for?), as is my duty and remains upon me. I Shelamzion (accept) all that is written (in this document). Shelamzion present, lent her hand writing(?). Mattat son of Simon by her order… son of Simon, witness. Masbala, son of Simon, witness.”

Elephantine documents written by Egyptian Jews, show that women were able to divorce their husbands in the same way that their husbands divorced them, as far back as the fifth century B.C.E. Its actually written into their Ketubahs that they could divorce each other by publicly stating that they “hate” their partner and paying them compensation. The portion of their Ketubah states,

“Tomorrow or (the) next day, should <the wife> stand up in an assembly and say:“I hated you; I will not be your wife”, silver of hatred is on her head. She shall give to <her husband> silver 7 shekels 2 quarters and all that she brought in her hand she shall take out, from straw to string.

(The marriage and divorce texts are published with a useful commentary by A. E. Cowley(AramaicPapyri of the Fifth Century BC)and E. G. Kraeling(The Brooklyn Museum Aramaic Papyri).These andthe other texts from Elephatine have been re-edited and translated in B. Porten & A. YardeniTextbook of  Aramaic documents from Ancient Egypt.(Jerusalem: Akedemon, 1989). 

With regards to the circumstances surrounding a man neglecting to fulfill his marital obligations and especially in cases involving domestic violence or even exposing a woman to STDs, it is right to accept a woman initiating a Get via a Beth Din to terminate her marriage.

In fact, and while shocking as it may be, actually under Torah law and the ruling of a Beth Din who finds this type of man guilty of such acts, the Woman can of course either return to her fathers home, as a single woman, and be fully eligible to re-marry or engage with no stigma of Deut 24 attached to her or if she does not want to return to her fathers home, and has another man in mind she’d like to be a helpmeet too or who asks her hand in relationship, engagement or marraige, and that man agrees also(meaning she can fall in love with someone else), this type of abhorrent irresponsible man/husband has to accept and allow another man(or family, father or Eldest man, who is seeking a wife for his son, cousin, as long as he’s not a foreigner etc) to come and acquire her from him, if she consents to such a man and believes he’s the right one for her, and she is to be allowed to leave with that man from her original husbands home(or her families home).

Furthermore, the Beth Din can order the man to make arraignments for her to be released to another man(with no property rights and no she can’t take half), and act in a manner as a father does to his daughter, receiving a bride fee from her new man(or family etc etc), and allowing her to leave, still under the pretense of divorce, but as a father does his daughter because of his behavior towards her in violation of Torah law…

Believe it or not, while most people think that I have been married more than two times, actually under Torah Law, I’ve only been married 1 time, which is my current marriage with Shomer NaKoahyah HaLahawi who is the daughter of my father’s brother & of the Levitical clan as myself. Two of my previous Ishah’s(Nashiym) were in fact Ammah(maid-servants) who became Paligesh(Concubines that were permanently engaged to me, not fully married) that were directly acquired from the men of their previous relationships due to this very law. Meaning I went to the homes of the men, discussed the relationship interests and them moving in with me, and coming to an agreement with the man.

Because I am a Cohen, I can only fully marry under what is called a Nissuin to women who are of my same tribe(i.e. a 1st, 2nd or 3rd cousin) according to the traditions of Genesis Chapter 24, as described about Isaac and Rebekhah, who were 1st cousins and in accordance to the Torah laws of Numbers Chapter 27.

One of my longest relationships was annulled due to adultery and deception as it related to a matter of uncleanliness and uncoveredness on their behalf, which happened in 2014. She conceived & birth a female Mamzer as a result of her adulterous relationship, leading to the HaLahawi clan being greatly embarrassed because of her..

We already see in the Torah law that a man can engage a woman from her father, with the intent to give her to his son, as long as that was made clear and she consented. Once again. He can’t go and engage her, claiming she’s to be given to his Son and then try to take her to his home and have sex with her and be her husband.That’s why the Torah law goes on and starts speaking about That’s why the Torah law goes on and starts speaking about food, covering and marriage rights that must never be diminished, especially if he takes on another wife. It must be made very clear that:

Taking on another wife/woman is not a legitimate excuse for a woman to leave or walk away from her relationship/marriage. if a woman leaves her husband because he wanted to take on another wife and yet he was being the man he’s supposed to be to her, then she automatically falls under the Duet. Law of uncoveredness and adultery if she ends up with another man…the neglect of the three rules is the only legitimate excuse a woman can have for divorce without being defined under the Deut. Law of being defiled if she remarried or ends up in another relationship.

Remaining in a Defiled Relationship

This is also why the prophet Malachi, when speaking to the man about his relationship, which he’s complaining about at the alter, calls him treacherous, because he’s forcing a woman, he doesn’t even love, to remain in a relationship with him. He says this(in the Original Aramaic language that is mistranslated in english),

Malachi 2:13 And this you have done a second time: you cover the altar of יהוה with tears, with weeping and crying, because He no longer regards the offering, nor receives it with pleasure from your hands.
Mal 2:14 And you said, “Why?” Because יהוה has been witness between you and the wife(woman) of your youth, against whom you have acted treacherously, though she is your companion and the wife(woman) of your covenant.
Mal 2:15 And did He not make one? And He had the remnant of the Spirit? And what is the one alone? He seeks a seed of Elohim. So you shall guard your spirit, and let none act treacherously against the wife of his youth.
Mal 2:16 “For I hate divorce,” said יהוה Elohim of Yisra’ĕl, “and the one who covers his garment with cruelty,” said יהוה of hosts. “So you shall guard your spirit, and do not act treacherously.”
Mal 2:17 You have wearied יהוה with your words, and you have said, “In what way have we wearied Him?” In that you say, “Everyone who does evil is good in the eyes of יהוה, and He is delighting in them,” or, “Where is the Elohim of right-ruling?”

Many of you have already studied my explanation of this in other Torah L
essons and articles. Elah makes it clear that crying at the alter, complaining to him about your wife/woman that you married/hooked up with and then mistreated, is not going to get him to answer you nor solve your problems. In fact, it’s going to ensure you DON’T have favor with Elah, because of your treacherous behavior. But what is the Treacherous behavior of this man that Elah is soo displeased with?

The English bible translations just flat out lies and mistranslate the text and have it say “Yahwah Hates Divorce”, as if that is the sin here… And yet it is a statement of truth that Yahwah Elah does hate divorce and that was never his original plan for humanity, yet he keeps it just and balanced to ensure that women(and men) are being treated fairly and are fulfilled and happy in the marital arraignments they end up in. People can and do change.

However, the verse does not say, Yahwah hates divorce. It actually says in the Aramaic text, “IF YOU HATE HER, DIVORCE HER(Or send her away).”

This verdict supports both the Deut 24 Law of the woman whose at fault for the relationship and it supports the Exodus laws in regards to when the MAN is at fault for the relationship. But he balances it out and puts the responsibility on the rightful person who is supposed to make the righteous decisions in the relationship in the first place. The Adon, the Master, the head of the household.

If a woman commits a matter of uncleanliness, that alters the relationship to a point that it cannot be repaired, you, as the head, are supposed to send her away. Sitting there, angry, bitter, hurt with a grudge for 20-30 years is Treachery! And if she has committed an act that is an abomination, such as adultery, and you stay with her, then, you are putting your own relationship with Elah in jeopardy, because Adultery is one of the clearly defined 10 commandments. Thou Shalt not commit adultery. Once you violate that aspect of the divine Torah constitution, the Constitution in that womans life(And the man she slept with) is null and voided. Ya’akob Tzadik explains it like this:

Ya’akob 2:10 For whoever shall guard all the Torah, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all. 2:11 For He who said, “Do not commit adultery,” also said, “Do not murder.” Now if you do not commit adultery, but you do murder, you have become a transgressor of Torah. 2:12 So speak and so do as those who are to be judged by a Torah of freedom.”

Simply reverse the Rule of murder and adultery and you get your answer. If you do not murder but you do commit adultery, you have violated all the Laws of the Torah. Thus no covenant exists between you and Elah anymore. Thus to stay with a woman who has had the Torah thrust from upon her life, is to now be unequally yoked. That in effect condones the behavior and is treated in the same manner as if a woman broke up with and left her man, got with another man, married him and then they break up or he dies and she goes back to her original man and he accepts her back… See the revelation of the whole issue of Deut 24?

If a woman is at fault for breaking up the relationship, then she commits adultery when she remarries or even dates or becomes intimate casually with someone else, which is why she is defined as DEFILED!!! However, it does NOT apply to a woman who’s been mistreated and deceived. She is allowed to leave and be with another man(As long as it is according to the rules of the Torah. Just up and leaving or choosing to go give your body to another man, behind your man’s back, just because he’s being a fool, mistreated you etc, is going to land the case of adultery against you, because you were also moving in deception).

At the same time, we see clearly deceiving a woman about your true intentions in order to get her to submit to you, including just for sex is also treachery. If you do not genuinely love that woman and if that marriage or relationship is NOT LEGITIMIZED according to the Torah in truthfulness, Then you MUST DIVORCE HER. Staying in a relationship and keeping a woman trapped is called making her an Agunah, a chained woman, meaning you are violating the Torah law that forbids treating her like a male servant/female slave..

This is called “Covering your garment with CRUELTY”.. That then violates one of the 3 rules of marriage, because you violated her Covering(protection, security, emotional support etc etc) as defined in Exodus 21:10, which is grounds for divorce(GET).

This law here as it really stands halachically in the Hebrew-Chaldean language is a strong law and lesson about humility and the social consequences of abusing your authority that Elah has given us as men. You’d think feminist would embrace this law, but then again, how can anyone embrace a Torah law if its never been taught to them right…

Relationships where Divorce may not be an option

Yet even so there are still other instances where divorce or breaking up is not permitted or can result in monetary fines. The Irony to the Torah. Unlike in the New Testament, sex outside of marriage is NOT fornication. Fornication in Judaism is the same as adultery. Pre-marital sex is defined as carnal knowledge. If a Jewish man single or married has sex with a single Jewish woman, then the Torah law stipulates:

Deut 22:28 “When a man finds a girl who is a maiden, who is not engaged, and he seizes her and lies with her, and they are found out, Deu 22:29 then the man who lay with her shall give to the girl’s father fifty pieces of silver, and she is to be his wife because he has humbled her. He is not allowed to put her away all his days.

Exodus 22:16 “And when a man entices a maiden who is not engaged, and lies with her, he shall certainly pay the bride-price for her to be his wife. Exo 22:17 “If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he pays according to the bride-price of maidens.

In the Debarim Law, a man who has premarital sexual relations with a maiden(meaning she’s un-married and young), is sued and must pay what is equivalent to a brides fee to the father or Eldest living male of the household if the father is dead. He is then to marry the young lady and he cannot ever divorce her for the both of them committing such actions.

However, the Book of Shemoth balances the issue. While it still makes clear the man must pay the bride price for having premarital sex with the young lady, with the option of marrying her and not being able to ever divorce her if he is compelled to do so, If the young lady’s father or oldest living male relative in the household refuses to allow her to marry the man, then he is simply made to pay the lawsuit fee anyways. …

The Label of Zona due to deception of virginity & sexual purity

Definition of Zonah:
A woman who commits adultery. A Whore, street prostitute as opposed to a Qadeshim. A wanton woman who is defiled by numerous men sexually. A nympho. Also associated with a person who commits idolatry & worships anyone or anything else but Elohin. Can be applied to a person who also follows many belief systems and religions that contradict Edenic & Torah Law.”

In this case, if no marriage occurs, the young woman is not treated as a Zonah or a whore. . But that is only because the pre-marital sex was found out and became openly known. However, if the same young maiden had sexual relations with this man, and they both kept it a secret, and then either broke off their relationship or simply went their separate ways because it was only supposed to be a booty call or one night fling, which also ended the young ladies virginity, and then she presented herself to the public as a pure virgin who has never had sexual relations, and then later finds a man she falls in love with and they develop a relationship that leads to marriage and she never discloses to her soon to be husband that she was not a virgin and he thought she was only to find out “after they get married” that she wasn’t, then the situation becomes a Sin of Whoredom and classified under Jewish criminal law /Torah law which then stipulates:

Deut 22:13 “When any man takes a woman, and shall go in to her, and shall hate her, Deu 22:14 and shall make abusive charges against her and bring an evil name on her and say, ‘I took this woman, and when I came to her I did not find her a maiden,’

Deu 22:15 then the father and mother of the young woman shall take and bring out the proof of the girl’s maidenhood to the elders of the city at the gate. Deu 22:16 “And the girl’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as wife, and he hates her. Deu 22:17 ‘And see, he has made abusive charges against her, saying, “I did not find your daughter a maiden,” and yet these are the proofs of my daughter’s maidenhood.’ And they shall spread the garment before the elders of the city.

Deu 22:18 “And the elders of that city shall take that man and punish him, Deu 22:19 and fine him one hundred pieces of silver and give them to the father of the young woman, because he has brought an evil name on a maiden of Yisra’ĕl. And she is to be his wife, he is not allowed to put her away all his days. Deu 22:20 “But if the matter is true, that the girl was not found a maiden, Deu 22:21 then they shall bring out the girl to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done wickedness in Yisra’ĕl, to whore in her father’s house. Thus you shall purge the evil from your midst

Thus lying and deception about ones sexual purity is treated as if the woman committed adultery or a matter of uncleanliness. Thus this scripture is tied to the Law of a husband putting away his wife because he found a matter of uncleanliness in her. However in this case, because she in fact lied about her sexual purity and virginity, she is not able to remarry because the penalty is a “criminal-matter”. Thus this act is in fact worse than other acts that lead to divorce, because she has adulterated herself and violated a number of Torah laws by being promiscuous and concealing the matter, especially considering she put her husband at risk for catching an STD should she have had one or causing his seed to be polluted with that of her former lovers called paramours.

Lying and deception is an act of betrayal and premeditated adultery.

While ancient Torah Law prescribed the death penalty, most Jewish jurisdictions and communities, especially Mizrahi and Ethiopian Jewish communities, pronounce the judgment of Karet, meaning to be “Cut off”, which leads to ex-communication from the entire culture and nation of Israel. Thus such a woman who has been put away by her husband/Man due to this matter of sexual impurity or matter of uncleanliness as defined in Deut 24, is a forbidden woman. Thus Anyone who marries or has intimate relations with her thereafter, Jew or gentile, commits adultery and damages his own relationship with Elah. He can be excommunicated if he is a member of the Torah Covenant or blocked from joining the Hebrew Community and Torah Covenant if he is a gentile who later wishes to become apart of the Torah Covenant after learning the knowledge and truth of the Laws of Elah. He would not be able to ingraft himself into the Torah covenant as long as he is married to this woman or by virtue of marrying her, and committing adultery.

If he married her in ignorance without knowledge of her ex-communication and sexual impurity, then he may divorce her and join the Torah Covenant. However, if he was aware that she was put away due to lying about her sexual impurity or committing adultery and he married her anyways, then he can never join the Torah Community ever. The Ruwah Qodesh would not fill such a person and he would not be able to develop a relationship with Yahwah while being married to such a woman. Because of her fornication before her previous marriage which led to being put away…..

Rabbi Hillel, Rabbi Shammai, Yeshua Ben Yoseph and Philo views balanced with the Torah.

This is where the Torah really sets the record straight as it relates to the debate of the School of Rabbi Hillel and Rabbi Shammai and the repeat by Yeshua Ben Yoseph comes into play. Also, Philo the Jewish historian & law scholar of Alexandria Egypt expose’ on the Torah is also rectified via the understanding that Deut 24 Laws relates to women who are at fault for the failed relationship, while Exodus Law relates to men who are at fault as it relates to defining adultery, which is woman-specific(and the man who committed the act with her).”

Definition of Adultery:
Chaldean “Na’aph”, ” the root of the word nympho. To behave outside of male(i.e. Husband) control & authority. To be sexually promiscuous without regard to the knowledge or consequences associated with such acts. An engaged or married woman who has an extramarital sexual or intimate affair with another man or woman behind her husbands or Masters back. A man or woman who has a sexual affair with a married or engaged woman. Sexual behaviors that are unnatural, including anal sex, homosexual sexual acts, having sex on ones menstrual cycle, having sexual relations with forbidden relatives or inter-marriage with a person whose not of the same culture, value system or religion or who is sexually impure due to previous relationships. Sexual relations with a person whose born a product of adultery(i.e. a Mamzerim). A woman who has sexual relations with multiple men either separately or together at one time. Rape. Sexual behavior that causes an STD or Infection. To corrupt, debase, or make impure by the addition of a foreign or inferior substance; especially: to prepare for sale by replacing more valuable with less valuable or inert ingredients. To genetically manipulate, alter or change from the original, such as GMO’s. To mix or graft two or more seeds of a different kind.

Definition of Sin:
Chaldean “Chata”, “to miss the mark, failure to live up to expectations, to fail at reaching a goal; to alter from the original; to change, dilute or corrupt, to fall short or aim incorrectly, to miscalculate, to make hybrid”

These are excerpts of such argument by the various schools and teachers on the Issue of Divorce, Remarriage and Adultery
“The one Law has become two laws” (Tosef., ?ag. ii. 9; Sanh. 88b; So?ah 47b). In the Mishnaic period the theory of the law that the husband could divorce his wife at will was challenged by the school of Shammai. It interpreted the text of Deut. 24: 1 in such a manner as to reach the conclusion that the husband could not divorce his wife except for cause, and that the cause must be sexual immorality (Git. ix. 10; Yer. So?ah i. 1, 16b).

The school of Hillel, however, held that the husband need not assign any reason whatever; that any act on her part which displeased him entitled him to give her a bill of divorce (Gi?. ib.). The opinion of the school of Hillel prevailed.

Philo of Alexandria (“Of Special Laws Relating to Adultery,” etc., ch. v.; English ed., ii. 310, 311) and Josephus (“Ant.” iv. 8) held this opinion:

Philo Special Laws III:29-31 (29) Again. Moses commands, do not either form a connection of marriage with one of another nation, and do not be seduced into complying with customs inconsistent with your own, and do not stray from the right way and forget the path which leads to piety, turning into a road which is no road. And, perhaps, you will yourself resist, if you have been from your earliest youth trained in the best possible instruction, which your parents have instilled into you, continually filling your mind with the sacred laws. And the anxiety and fear which parents feel for their sons and daughters is not slight; for, perchance, they may be allured by mischievous customs instead of genuine good ones, and so they may be in danger of learning to forget the honour belonging to the one Elah, which is the beginning and end of extreme unhappiness.

(30) But if, proceeds the lawgiver, a woman having been divorced from her husband under any pretence whatever, and having married another, has again become a widow, whether her second husband is alive or dead, still she must not return to her former husband, but may be united to any man in the world rather than to him, having violated her former ties which she forgot, and having chosen new allurements in the place of the old ones. (31) But if any man should choose to form an alliance with such a woman, he must be content to bear the reputation of effeminacy and a complete want of manly courage and vigour, as if he had been castrated and deprived of the most useful portion of the soul, namely, that disposition which hates iniquity, by which the affairs both of houses and cities are placed on a good footing, and as having stamped deeply on his character two of the greatest of all iniquities, adultery and the employment of a pander; for the reconciliations which take place subsequently are indications of the death of each. Let him, therefore, suffer the punishment appointed, together with his wife.Philo, of Alexandria ; Yonge, Charles Duke: The Works of Philo : Complete and Unabridged. electronic ed. of the new updated ed. Peabody : Hendrickson, 1996, c1993, S. 596

As you can see, a woman under the divine Torah understanding who is divorced due to her own wanton behavior, lifestyle or sexual impurities, is not seen as someone who another true righteous man would want to marry, because she defiled & he further defiles her even as he defiles himself for taking her as his wife, after she’s been previously married or in a covenant relationship(or in this age and era, has been sexual before even with her boyfriend.

Second marriages of women are seen as “mediocre, second rated or settling” and the man who marries her or enters a covenant relationship with her is settling. Philo goes so far as to call such men “Pussies” another term for “effeminate”. Men who lack character or true male authority, never use wisdom or common sense to think about this woman’s former behavior in that,

“if she did what she did to her former husband/man that led to the destruction of her marriage, family and/or relationship, whose to say she won’t do the same thing to me?”

For example, when you have a woman(or man for that matter) with an unclean spirit, and she’s already left a track record of having 15 ex-boyfriends from Middle School to Post High School and 4 sexual relationships that all failed & then she’s divorced, 1, 2 ore more times, those are signs of her lifestyle behaviors and choices and it speaks alot about who “she really is”. As long as that Spirit is there, everyone she submits to is going to get the same results as her former relationships.

Your righteousness or stability is not going to change her track record and the spirit that is within her. Spirits have a habit of going into remission or becoming dormant, as seeds being germinated. During this time, the woman may in fact exhibit traits of change, genuineness, and a desire to be a good wife/woman. This is a form of deception to prevent the woman from going through the process of purity and healing to remove such seeds from her life. And yet, time can go by, between 1 week and 20 years and then something in your relationship goes wrong or a situation between you and her occurs and suddenly it triggers the spirit that destroyed all of her previous relationships, causing it to manifest in your marriage and relationship, and the woman you thought you knew or had changed, in fact, is now in your face as a person you don’t even recognize. And you can find yourself with a woman who suddenly misses what she had with an old friend she grew up with or an old fling she’s had sex with, whose spirit is permanently stamped upon her soul and now she’s desiring him out of the blue. Next thing you know, your marriage just went from anointed and blessed to become a 7th grade boyfriend-girlfriend fling and break up..

This is Spiritual Anatomy and Physiology as it relates to Human Behavioral patterns...

That’s why it’s essential to understand the chapter on Single, Damaged, and Unfixable Corporate Woman. Where I share more knowledge on Philo and his expert understanding of the Torah laws and how sexual impurity affects a Priest(Cohen), which reveals alot of knowledge about what happens to all relationships when you deal with a woman who is sexually impure and unclean.

Yeshua(Jesus) Ben Yoseph & Miriam in his Rabbinical discussion with the P’rushim(Pharisees) seems to have taught the views of both the school of Shammai and the school of Hillel, in two separate discussions. As recorded by Matthew. 19:3-9, he appears to give the school of Shammai halachic view:

Matthew 19:3 And the Pharisees came to Him, trying Him, and saying to Him, “Is it right for a man to put away his wife for every reason?” Mat 19:4 And He answering, said to them, “Did you not read that He who made them at the beginning made them male and female, Mat 19:5 and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? Mat 19:6 “So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what Elohim has joined together, let man not separate.”

Mat 19:7 They said to Him, “Why then did Mosheh command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?” Mat 19:8 He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts, Mosheh allowed you to put away your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

Mat 19:9 “And I say to you, whoever puts away his wife, except on the ground of whoring, and marries another, commits adultery.1 And whoever marries her who has been put away commits adultery.”

One of the things that is pointed out in Jewish and Biblical Scholarship, as it relates to the Aramaic translations of this text about Yeshua, is that he was never referring to the Man who divorced his wife and took another woman, as being the one who committed adultery. If that were the case, Yeshua would in fact be contradicting the Torah Law and Judaic customs, as Polygany is a central factor of Hebrew family building in ancient and modern Mizrahi & Sephardic Hebrew culture, and is in fact defined as divine marriage, which is also in alignment with Edenic Law & the natural laws that are the bases of biology, genetics, embryology, and other medical sciences.

Natural Law is the Law of Yahwah Elah because he is the one who created natural law which is the basis of Science. Natural law as it relates to embryology and science specifies by nature that all embryos conceived, from copulation between a man and woman, come forth as a female originally. It is the genetic mutation that occurs that causes such embryo’s to become male. That same law stipulates that the embryos of humankind must mutate into males only after every 4-7 female embryos are brought forth, developed, and birth.. Thus by natural law and balance according to the original design, there must be 4-7 women for every 1 male on this planet at ALL TIMES. That would make the total number of men birth to women to be 1-4. 25%-28% of the Global Population out of 7 billion people. That makes 1.75 Billion Men.

The current public statistics about there being 51.9 % of the population being men is deeply flawed and are biased with an underlying attempt to -re-enforce Euro-gentile Monogamy. At the same time, the gross abuse of women in 3rd world countries in the Middle East and Asia, including infanticide, which is legally practiced in many countries in which societies desire to produce more boys and girls, due to the belief that women are inferior, thus leading to mass abortions and killing babies, coupled with honor killings, deaths from natural childbirth due to poor environmental & public health factors, and other gross factors have reduced the number of women in certain countries in direct violation of natural embryology. Plus there are entire populations that are never taken into consideration with these statistics, especially indigenous populations and populations where polygany is the original and normal way of living.

Thus the true way to determine the Truth of Elah’s Torah law against Monogamy is to accept Embryology Science of how things would be if other factors did not interfere with the reduction of the female population. As I have explained further, the first Law that Elah ever directly gave to mankind was the law of Sex and relationships,

Genesis 1:27, “Be Fruitful, Multiply and Increase and have dominion”

That is a command, not an option or a personal choice. Its an obligation by virtue of being a created human being. Thus if this is a command, then it’s impossible for Yahwah Elah to have instituted or sanctioned “monogamy” as the family building choice for humankind. Because If Monogamy was his will, then we’d have a contradiction in Law, because if you took every man on the planet & paired 1 man on the planet to 1 woman on the planet, we’d still have 3/4th(75%) or 2/7th(over 85%) of all women unable to fulfill the divine command of Elah. That is not a just and righteous thing.

Yet the Torah not only glorifies polygany as the original way Elah designed for humankind, it is also apart of a major prophecy of the last days in how families would be structured in order to “take away the Reproach” of chaos, famine, war & economic collapse. It also defines how “women” would be able to become clean from their uncleanliness. That scripture says,Isaiah 4:1, “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, “We shall eat our own food and wear our own clothes; only let us be called by your name, to take away our reproach.” Isa 4:2 In that day the Branch of יהוה shall be splendid and esteemed. And the fruit of the earth shall be excellent and comely for the escaped ones1 of Yisra’ĕl.

Isa 4:3 And it shall be that he who is left in Tsiyon and he who remains in Yerushalayim is called set-apart/holistic, everyone who is written among the living in Yerushalayim. Isa 4:4 When יהוה has washed away the filth of the daughters of Tsiyon, and rinsed away the blood of Yerushalayim from her midst, by the spirit of judgment and by the spirit of burning, Isa 4:5 then יהוה shall create above every dwelling place of Mount Tsiyon, and above her assemblies, a cloud and smoke by day and the shining of a flaming fire by night, for over all the esteem shall be a covering, Isa 4:6 and a booth for shade in the daytime from the heat, for a place of refuge, and for a shelter from storm and rain.

Notice the connection to the concept of “Fruitful” as it relates to the Edenic command & its relationship to women who actively seek to join themselves to a polygany family to remove the “spirit of reproach” from their lives.

Yeshua & Hillel’s view:
Yeshua was already previously recorded as describing, in more detail, what actually constitutes adultery, according to the school of Hillel(as opposed to Shammai) & the laws of Daberim, in Matthew chapter 5 where it says,

Mat 5:31 “And it has been said, ‘Whoever puts away his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’
Mat 5:32 “But I say to you that whoever puts away his wife, except for the matter of whoring,1 makes her commit adultery. And whoever marries a woman who has been put away commits adultery.

I frankly would not trust the Greek manuscripts of the New Testament because of the overwhelming instances where their scribes and the Church deliberately edited and altered verses, especially even as the church itself has openly admitted to doing such. And it doesn’t help when a Christian translator is ignorant or confused about Jewish law and proceeds to basically confuse or butcher what is being said in the Greek texts. There are Aramaic texts of Matthew that is much more accurate than the Greek Matthew as this particular Gospel was originally an Aramaic text.

One of the issues of mistrust is the fact that in both Instances the translator tries to quote Shammai and Hillel and ends up misquoting them. When you consider the passage above and how the exception is written, it actually makes little sense. Adultery/whoring shouldn’t be an exception that causes her to commit adultery. Her whoring in and of itself is adultery.
Thus it should read:

“But I say to you that whoever puts away his wife, for the matter of whoring, makes her commit adultery. And whoever marries a woman who has been put away commits adultery.”

In other words, the only time someone marrying a divorced woman becomes guilty of adultery is if they marry a woman who was put away for committing adultery. Adultery in this case is capital adultery defilement (Taw-me)and is different from the “matter of uncleanliness” mentioned in Debarim. Putting a woman away for a “matter of uncleanliness” does not cause her to commit “capital adultery”, because the Torah makes it permissible to remarry, even though according to the Original design & the intent of Elah, no such behavior should exist, and her soul would have defilement upon it because it’s not Edenic. That is why once she marries another man she can never return to her first husband because she has been “defiled”(Tawme) to a lesser extent than adultery.

Unfortunately in the confusion of the NT, we find another contradiction of this in the Christian Book of Mark(who was a gentile),

Mark 10:11 And He said to them, “Whoever puts away his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. Mar 10:12 “And if a woman puts away her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”

Mark represents the total abandonment of the School of Hillel & Shammai & is a clear revisionist and abolishment of Judaic Torah Law, in direct contradiction of Yeshua’s own words that the Torah would not pass away until heaven and earth vanished.

While Mark is correct in the 2nd part of the passage that relates that a woman who initiates a divorce against her husband(except if he violates the 3 stipulations of marital duties) and marries another man commits adultery, Mark cannot be relied upon due to the time period in which it was written and the fact that the book is based on Hearsay, not direct eye witness nor truth. While we know that the Book of Mattiyahu was in fact originally written in Aramaic(i.e. Du Tillet etc) & both Church fathers and Rabbis have confirmed such via many historical writings, making it written around AD 70.

Mark on the other hand is a revision of post 325 CE after Constantine and the official separation of Christianity from Judaism, in which Christianity promoted monogamy(and secret closet homosexuality) & other Anti-Torah beliefs and re-defined adultery which still exists today amongst the Church as when both a married man and woman has sexual relations or affairs outside of their marriage. This has also become the basis of America and Most Euro-gentile laws…

So this could not have even remotely been the Words of Yeshua, as it doesn’t even make sense in the realm of Torah laws. Keep in mind, despite the Church originating this Monogamy ideology, which they actually inherited from a Zadokite sect known as Qumran, commonly called Essenes, but were not Netzarim Ethnic Israelites(See my book the Way and Developing and Establishing Effective Leadership for more detailed info on this.), Christianity practiced polygany for over 1700 years until the U.S. Supreme Court made it illegal in the United States. Ashkenazi Jews were forced by the Christian government in Germany to have their Chief Rabbi, named Gershom, to issue a Halachic Order to ban Polygamy. However his Halachic order had no jurisdiction over Sephardi and Mizrahi Jewish Rabbis, so they disregarded it and continued to practice the blessed family-building lifestyle even today. European Jews still for the most part practice monogamy due to this ruling in the Diaspora, while polygamy is a part of many Ashkenazis in Israel.

HaLachic conclusion on adultery

So with this understanding, we know that a man cannot commit “Adultery”, under Torah Law, if he divorces his wife or ends a relationship with a woman regardless of what he did it for, and that Yeshua clearly was speaking of the “woman” remarrying and the man who “marries” a divorced woman commits adultery. Yet keep in mind this does not apply to the woman in Exodus who is divorced from her husband due to deception or neglect by such husband. That is the big difference and balance in the whole situation, as the Two Torah Laws are supreme and final on the matter.

Adultery & The Consequences

Thus it’s clear that how and for what reason a woman is divorced or ends her marriage determines what her status is. Any woman who commits adultery via having an affair behind her mans back while married would not able to marry her paramour who slept with her. Both would have committed an abomination and either stoned to death or excommunicated from the Jewish community and covenant altogether…

Levitcus 20:10-12 ‘And a man who commits adultery with the woman of another man, who commits adultery with the wife/woman of his neighbour(friend, associate, colleague): the adulterer and the adulteress shall certainly be put to death. (11) ‘And a man who lies with the wife(woman) of his father has uncovered the nakedness of his father, both of them shall certainly be put to death, their blood is upon them. (12) ‘And a man who lies with his daughter-in-law: both of them shall certainly be put to death, they have made confusion, their blood is upon them.

This law puts into perspective the Exodus law of acquiring a young woman from her father with the intent or expectation of giving her to his son, and then when he brings her into the home, he tries to have sex with her. If she resists and he still has sex with her, by virtue of his authority over her, then she is innocent. But if she consents to have sex with the man who is to be her “father in law”, then they are to be punished according to this law. So once again the issue of deception about the intent of marriage comes into play, and it could result in severe consequences, especially if the female consented to marry the mans son, but then give it up to the son’s father who acquired her… This would be like Abraham having sex with Rebekah after he acquired her for Isaac. The following Law also applies to this situation:

Debarim 22:22-27 “When a man is found lying with a woman married to a husband, then both of them shall die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman. Thus you shall purge the evil from Yisra’el. (23) “When a girl who is a maiden is engaged to a husband, and a man finds her in the city and lies with her, (24) then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city, and shall stone them to death with stones, the girl because she did not cry out in the city, and the man because he has humbled his neighbour’s wife(woman). Thus you shall purge the evil from your midst

The thoughts of Sin within the Heart. Attempted adultery

If you pay attention to the details of these laws, especially in the Biblical Chaldean language, the two words I have underlined in the first verse above says something very interesting. If you pay attention to the details of these laws, especially in the Biblical Chaldean language, the two words I have underlined in the first verse above says something very interesting. “Commit Adultery” is “Na’aph Na’aph.

What this means is that the attempt or thought to attempt or start the process of actually going through with the act holds the same weight as the act itself. You know how you see these movies where a man or woman who ends up in an argument with their husband, fiancé, or boyfriend/girlfriend, and then leaves the home and end up over someone else’s home, and then in the heat of the moment they are kissing, rubbing and caressing the other person as they wildly move towards the bedroom or sofa where they intend to engage in hot passionate sexual lovemaking intercourse, and then suddenly in the midst of the act, the one married, engaged(or dating) gets a conscience that what they are doing is wrong and realizes they love the other person at home too much, so they stop the process, never have actual intercourse beyond kissing and touching, gets up, get dressed, apologizes, leaves and return home to try to make up to the person they really love. And what do most of us do? We applaud that person for not going through with it.

Yet the reality is, we still should be condemning him for even entertaining the acts and attempting to go through the act in the first place. Because according to Torah Law, they committed adultery irregardless of whether they had intercourse or not. Thus intercourse is a 2nd or 3rd offense against the Torah, not a single isolated offense.

The 1st offense is the process of committing it or thinking about it. the 2nd or 3rd offense is completing the mission. Sin is never a single offense. When you commit any type of destructive act, you go through a series of offenses to complete it. Ever notice even in secular judicial criminal law, a person who commits a crime, such as a Robbery, never gets 1 charge, even though it appears the robbery as a whole was 1 act? You will see 1. Armed Robbery, 2. Carrying a firearm with the intent to commit a crime, 3. possession of illegal or unregistered weapon 4. Unlawful Mischief & breach of public safety, 5. Domestic Terrorism 6. Carrying a concealed weapon 7. Public Disturbance 8. Endangering the Lives of others during the commission of a crime. …… Before you know it, you can have 8-20 charges for that one crime & each charge carries a jail or punishment sentence with it.. And you can have a person whose never been arrested for pleading for leniency and still get a harsh punishment because in reality, his appearance in court is not a 1st-time offense, it’s a first time appearance in court, but the offenses committed were already multiple of times.

There is no such thing as a 1st-time offender. only a 1st time giving an account for the numerous offenses they committed, even if they were all committed during the same commission of a crime. Thus the harsh punishment is related moreso to the fact that such a plea is in fact lying under oath just by virtue of calling yourself a 1st time offender.. Just as it is a crime for “attempted murder” even though no one was actually murdered, there is a such thing as attempted adultery, a spiritual, emotional, cultural & physical crime, even if you never kissed, touched, or had actual sexual intercourse(notice you already have at least 4 charges associated with adultery). Well, Sin/ chata, is a crime against the Torah Law, as the Torah is the constitution, statutes, codes, and legislation that governs an actual nation or Kingdom.

Thus spiritual, civil, moral, ethical, cultural, and secular laws are combined and categorized just like any other Nation or system of government. And you never commit one sin as you attempt to carry it out. This is why in both Judaism (and repeated in Christianity), the halachic rule is that even if a man/woman thinks/entertains the idea to commit adultery in his/her heart, it has the same weight as actually doing it. Thus we end up seeing “Covetousness” and “lust” coming into play.

Definition of Covetousness:
To passionately and/or excessively want or desire someone or something that does not belong to you and especially if it or they belong to someone else.

Definition of Lust:
To have a strong sexual desire or passionate desire to have something or someone that is forbidden to you, not available to you or belongs to someone else. Lust does not apply to strongly wanting someone or something that is not forbidden & is available. Thus a single or married man wanting or desiring a single woman sexually is not Lust. Or wanting a TV or other product on a shelf for sale is not lust, but if that product was already pre-ordered & sold to another customer & you continue to desire that particularly product after the fact, then its lust because its not available to you.

Life of Adam & Eve 19:3, ” And when he had received the oath from me, he went and poured upon the fruit the poison of his wickedness, which is Covetousness, the origin and beginning of every sin, and he bent the branch on the earth and I took of the fruit and I ate.”

Therefore, right then and there you have broken at least 3 of the 10 Commandments just thinking about how fine, sexy your neighbors woman is and imaging her riding your big(or little) sin stick and you just pounding away between her legs, as her round bubble buttocks bounced back and forth as she moans and calls out your name.

No one may ever even know you thought about it, and you may never even do the act and still be great friends with that neighbor and his wife, but you already compromised your relationship with Yahwah. And Lord forbid if it was reverse and she saw you. You are handsome, have a six pack muscle stomach, and may in fact be a tattooed king Dingaling. The moment she imagines your big stick pounding her between her legs while you are grabbing her nice round bubble butt that is bouncing and jiggling up and down while she’s calling your name, cancels her favor with Elah, opens the door for Satan to come in and drop a whole myriad of seeds into her spirit, and causes Yahwah to start making preparations and arraignments for her to be replaced by another more better worthy woman, whose not only faithful in her actions, but pure in her thoughts and mind at all times….

This is how serious it is. When you start putting it in perspective, Adultery violates “thou shalt not murder, thou shalt not lie, thou shalt not steal, bearing false witness, though shall not covet. Furthermore, Adultery is associated with Idolatry. That furthermore is taking the name of Yahwah in vain. Explain to me how you would be able to honor the Shabbat, when you don’t have a relationship with Yahwah anymore, because of your dumb choice to open your legs as a married woman, or you chose to have sex with a married/engaged or taken woman behind her husbands or mans back? The answer is ,”YOU CAN”T”…

Testament of the 12 Patriarch, Testament of Joseph(Ethiopian/Mizrahi Jewish Scriptures):
2:4 For Yahwah doth not forsake them that fear Him,Neither in darkness, nor in bonds, nor in tribulations, nor in necessities. 5 For Elah is not put to shame as a man, Nor as the son of man is he afraid, Nor as one that is earth-born is He weak or affrighted.

3:1 How often did the Egyptian woman threaten me with death! How often did she give me over to punishment, and then call me back and threaten me, and when I was unwilling to company with her, she said to me: 2 Thou shalt be lord of me, and all that is in my house, if thou wilt give thyself unto me, and thou shalt be as our master. 3 But I remembered the words of my father, and going into my chamber, I wept and prayed unto Elah. 4:1 Often, therefore, did she flatter me with words as a holy man, and guilefully in her talk praise my chastity before her husband, while desiring to ensnare me when we were alone. 2 ⌈For⌉ she lauded me openly as chaste, and in secret she said unto me: Fear not my husband; for he is persuaded concerning thy chastity: for even should one tell him concerning us, he would not believe.
3 Owing to all these things I lay upon the ground, and besought Elah that Yahwah would deliver me from her deceit. 4 And when she had prevailed nothing ⌈thereby⌉, she came again to me under the plea of instruction, that she might learn the Word of Elah.

5 And she said unto me: If thou willest that I should leave my idols, lie with me, and I will persuade my husband to depart from his idols, and we will walk in the law of Yahwah. 6 And I said unto her: Yahwah willeth not that those who reverence Him should be in uncleanness, nor doth He take pleasure in them that commit adultery, ⌈but in those that approach Him with a pure heart and undefiled lips. 7 But she held her peace, longing to accomplish her evil desire. 8 And I gave myself yet more to fasting and prayer, that Yahwah might deliver me from her.

Bitter Water, Fibroids, HPV, Weight Gain: The Curse of Adultery & Sexual Promiscuity outside of responsible relationships:

Number 5:12 “Speak to the children of Yisra’ĕl, and say to them, ‘When any man’s wife(woman) turns aside and has committed a trespass against him, Num 5:13 and a man has intercourse with her, and it is hidden from the eyes of her husband(master), and it is concealed that she has defiled herself, and there was no witness against her, nor was she caught, Num 5:14 and a spirit of jealousy comes upon him and he becomes jealous of his wife(woman) who has defiled herself, or a spirit of jealousy comes upon him and he becomes jealous of his wife although she has not defiled herself, Num 5:15 then the man shall bring his wife(woman) to the priest(Cohen). And he shall bring the offering for her, one-tenth of an ĕphah of barley flour. He is not to pour oil on it or put frankincense on it, because it is a grain offering of jealousy, an offering for remembering, for bringing crookedness to remembrance.

Num 5:16 ‘And the priest shall bring her near, and shall make her stand before יהוה. Num 5:17 ‘And the priest shall take set-apart water in an earthen vessel, and take some of the dust that is on the floor of the Dwelling Place and put it into the water. Num 5:18 ‘And the priest shall make the woman stand before יהוה, and shall uncover the woman’s head, and put the offering for remembering in her hands, which is the grain offering of jealousy, while the priest holds in his hand the bitter water that brings a curse. Num 5:19 ‘And the priest shall make her swear, and say to the woman, “If no man has lain with you, and if you have not turned aside to uncleanness under your husband’s authority, be free from this bitter water that brings a curse. Num 5:20 “But if you have turned aside under your husband’s authority, and if you have defiled yourself and some man other than your husband has lain with you” – Num 5:21 then the priest shall make the woman swear with the oath of the curse, and he shall say to the woman – “יהוה make you a curse and an oath among your people, when יהוה makes your thigh waste away and your belly swell, Num 5:22 and this water that causes the curse shall go into your inward parts, and make your belly swell and your thigh waste away.” And the woman shall say, “Amĕn, amĕn.”

Num 5:23 ‘And the priest shall write these curses in a book, and shall wipe them off into the bitter water, Num 5:24 and shall make the woman drink the bitter water that brings the curse, and the water that brings the curse shall enter her to become bitter. Num 5:25 ‘And the priest shall take the grain offering of jealousy from the woman’s hand, and shall wave the offering before יהוה, and bring it to the altar. Num 5:26 ‘And the priest shall take a hand filled with the offering, as its remembrance offering, and burn it on the altar, and afterward make the woman drink the water. Num 5:27 ‘And when he has made her drink the water, then it shall be, if she has defiled herself and has committed a trespass against her husband, that the water that brings the curse shall enter her and become bitter, and her belly shall swell, and her thigh shall waste away, and the woman shall become a curse among her people.

Num 5:28 ‘But if the woman has not defiled herself, and is clean, then she shall be clear and shall conceive children. Num 5:29 ‘This is the Torah of jealousy, when a wife turns aside under her husband’s authority and defiles herself, Num 5:30 or when a spirit of jealousy comes upon a man, and he becomes jealous of his wife. Then he shall make the woman stand before יהוה, and the priest shall do to her all this Torah. Num 5:31 ‘And the man shall be clear from crookedness, but the woman bear her crookedness.’ ”

This is a Torah law you barely hear gentiles, especially Christians, ever even speak of or teach. And yet this Torah law stands today as damnation against a myriad of women(and men). As I have taught and believe, this Law is able to prophetically go into effect when “any” woman of any race, nationality, or ethnicity, courts, engages to, or marries a Hebrew or Edenic Man. It’s especially even more dangerous if she is in covenant with a Cohen or Rabbi of Israel or any spiritual leader for that matter.

Elah takes hurting and betraying his chosen and anointed men very seriously, and when secular law does not live up to the Law of Elah and women think they have gotten away with being whores and adulteresses, they find themselves quite mistaken. I, my life & former failed relationships are prime examples of what can happen to a woman who goes aside and commit adultery. When I seek out a woman I seek certain qualities, both within and physically. Every woman I have engaged to, courted, and/or married, were very beautiful and appealing to the eye. Even one I engaged, even though not very attractive, I invested into her transformation, helping with her esteem and lifting her self-worth. Thus as a man and lover I simply invested into those I truly loved. And It has always been my intention to be faithful and the man Elah called me to be as a Husband and Leader of my family. No woman can ever say that I walked out on them, neglected them and did not love them. I lived up to and superseded the Exodus law on the three provisions required to keep a marriage validated. And despite this, the marriage/relationship failed. They may think it was okay to do many of the evil and unclean things they did against me and even go so far as to call me cruel and hateful for not truly forgiving them of the matters of cleanliness they all committed while with me. And its a painful and embarrassing life story, that I do not believe any other Rabbi or Cohen has even remotely experienced, but I speak on them as a lesson for others to learn from, because there are physical signs of the consequences of what happened to each one who defiled themselves and were put away from my family. All of my ex’s have physical noticeable changes. You can go & look each one up on the internet and compare how they look now compared to how they looked when they were doing what they were supposed to be doing as a helpmeet unto me. Each one of them exhibits the true underlying understanding of “The belly swelling” and “Thigh rotting” law. Fibroids is a huge marker of a woman who’s been sexually promiscuous with too many men. Being overweight, the toad stance, walk, the belly swelling, tumors, Cervical Dysplasia etc, are all consequential results of adultery.


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