The quality of a woman’s life is only as good as the quality of the man(or lack thereof) in whom she reflects. A divine Message

By Rabbi Cohen Shalomim Y. HaLahawi OMD, NMD, PhD., PsyD., DFM, DPH
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Base Text:
Genesis(Bereshit) 2:18 And
יהוה Elohim said, “It is not good for the man to be alone, I am going to make a helper for him, as his counterpart.”

What I am about to write, will guarantee to stir up the dormant, yet controlling destructive spirits that have poisoned the minds of western women for many generations, perpetually sowing its seeds within her during her childhood, to ensure she continues to evolve the wrong way and never fulfill her calling and purpose and activate her virtue and true worth according to the Law of Original design. The feminist, the worst kind of woman,  can get mad all they want, but the truth is truth and the contents of this message are directly from the mind of Yahwah Elah and the throne of heaven..

By original design and creation( something most in western culture know little about because of incompetent parenting who themselves grew up disconnected from culture and the science of original design), you were created and purposed to first and foremost belong to a man. A specific man at that. Most of you are by design supposed to be sharing the same man whether you accept that fact or not.. Perceptions and opinion contrary to natural laws and divine law that governs human nature are irrelevant when it comes to delivering a prophetic Epistle that is rooted in objective biological science.

If you don’t learn and digest the Debarai Ha Chockimah/Word of Wisdom and Debarai Ha Binah/Word of Knowledge from an expert and Levitical Seer such as myself, then you will learn it the hard way via never fulfilling your original purpose in life and always settling, struggling, being depressed and bi-polar and angry at the world when its nobodies fault but yours that you live corrupted and contrary to your original design.. This one thing will always be true and that is:

“You will only be as good as the man in your life, or lack thereof”

You are living a lie and espousing a destructive mentality to even insinuate you don’t need a man to live a happy, fulfilled, and balanced life…Yes the hell you do need a man.. Not want, you NEED a man to even be a whole, complete, and unique person in and of yourself according to the law of relativity and laws of physics…

What does it mean to be “whole, unique end complete in yourself”? It literally means to be sacred and Holy. Yes, that’s right, you can’t be a holy/holistic person if you are single as a woman and you must have a man to even reach that point, just as you cannot be virtuous as defined by Proverbs 31 either single or with the wrong man….. There is no logic to even religious women, who are single and long term celibate to try to attach the title of virtuous woman to their lives when they are living the exact opposite of the proverbs 31 woman.

The man is designed by divine and natural inheritance to always be the foundation. You as a woman can never be a foundation ever. No matter how hard you try to be a foundation within your being, you will always come to do it wrong, come up short or utterly fail, and we see that already with the fact that in certain ethnic groups, such as black American women, 75% are single, unwed and even mothers who are birthing bastard/mamzer kids every day like skittles raining from heaven. You, by design, are only structured to be “a building” upon s foundation. What happens to a building that is constructed with no foundation? It’s dangerous, unstable, unsafe, and a recipe for disaster….

Character Traits pre-defined in Women as reflected in Chockimah our Eternal Emah

Your quality as a woman is based on the quality of your man…Because as a woman you are a mirror image and reflection of the man in your life and his DNA, that you allow to be inserted into your soul via your vagina and Uterus.. The Book Wisdom of Solomon says that Chockimah, our Eternal Mother and female counterpart of the Divine Elohim, with Yahwah our Father as the male counterpart, is in fact defined as a Mirror image of Yahwah Elah…

Wisdom of Solomon 7:24-26 “For Chockimah(Wisdom) is mobile beyond all motion, and she penetrates and pervades all things by reason of her purity. 25 [a]For she is a breath of the might of Elah and a pure emanation of the glory of the Almighty; therefore nothing defiled can enter into her. 26 For she is the reflection of eternal light, the spotless mirror of the power of Elah, the image of his goodness. “

Even in her own Eternal state of being, she can only self exist in union and alignment with Yahwah Elah. Her power self exists intertwined with his power… Their constant bonding and union, which is reflected in the natural realm as sexual bonding between male and female, is what creates the Shekinah or glory of Elohim. If they were ever to cease from bonding, male and female, positive polarity and negative polarity, according to the divine law and law of physics, for even a billionth of a second, all life form and creation would cease to exist instantly….

Chockimah can never be a mirror image of any other being except Yahwah Elah, and we are made to walk in the Image of Elohim, both male and female. And so if she can’t be the mirror of any other being, being herself self-existent and eternal, then woman also can never be a mirror image of themselves or more than one man. Why? Because you are made in the image and likeness of Chockimah(Wisdom). And yet many of you keep laying down with man after man after man, and you have these personalities, energies and spirits pressed upon your soul from each of these men, now manifesting itself via your behaviors, thoughts, and emotions. And for the most part it has made you unstable, unfulfilled, and empty to the point that Mr. Right and the perfect man of your desires never show up to marry you, adore you, and help you become elevated to the Queen of virtue as defined in proverbs 31… And these various personalities, spirits, and energies from all of these men manifest as bipolar, schizophrenia, and mania, causing your life to go up and down, around in circles, and upside down like a roller coaster that never seems to end.

At the same time, many of you are giving your life and body to men of inferior quality, thugs, Jailbirds, drug addicts, drug dealers, alcoholics, abusers, liars, weed heads. cheaters and Intellectually inferior with some of the lowest IQs one can find. You will only rise to their level, prosper or live in poverty as per their reality and will only be able to express their essence, because of your original design as a mirror image creation..

Look around you. Look at the various levels of lifestyles women are exposed to and given for their lives… You have some women who are wives of great leaders, priests, pastors, Imams, the President, Prime Minister or political leader of a country, Doctors, Lawyers, Businessmen, and sports players, etc And then you have some women struggling on welfare, strung out on drugs, sitting here wasting away life and always miserable because her man is in Jail or lives some foul rachet life. And as long as these women stick with that man, they will only be able to reflect “that man” and his success of utter failures in their own lives.. You can teach her any principle of life, truth, spirituality, culture etc., but if her man is not fulfilling his role according to original design, her good intentions and righteous desires will still never manifest past and beyond who that man is.

Your value in and of itself as a woman, dictates the type of man you are eligible to align and bond with and become a mirror of. If you have a high value, then the man designed for you to submit too is going to be great as opposed to having a low value of which the man will be of inferior quality. Like attracts like & everything about your design is similar in Essence to Chockimah(the Eternal Mother). Here is an example:

Proverbs 31:10 Who does find a virtuous (capable) wife? For she is worth far more than rubies.

Proverbs 8:11 “For Chockimah is better than rubies, And all delights are not comparable to her.

Thus, a prepared woman, who is fulfilling her original design as a helpmeet to the man she was designed for, will in fact reflect the Essence and characteristics of Chockimah. Women who do not manifest these character traits of Chockimah are clear indicators she is not a virtuous woman. And yet there are pre-defined traits of a woman in that she must be a mirror, just as Chockimah is a mirror, and live as a reflection, whether as a virtuous woman or as a destructive and simple woman who has little worth or quality. Women are by design reflectors and mirrors. What you see when you see a woman is the type of man she represents or lacks, at all times. If she has no man, she’s a reflection of failure as it relates to living up to her original design. That is why being a feminist is destructive because it stunts a woman’s ability to align herself with the Laws of Yahwah Elah(physics, relativity & divine law) and thus invokes the law of consequence which manifests itself as “The Curses of the Law”.

Same values, household, and upbringing can produce different results

You can take two or three sisters from the same family, raised the same way with the same principles and values, and yet they can have 3 different outcomes that are totally shocking. Whether they were originally rich or dirt poor.. You can have that one sister who has the intelligence and wisdom to submit her life to a man she knows she can represent and align herself and who himself is living according to original design, is a Physician, Leader, and very successful family-oriented man and her life will be revolutionized and her spiritual, cultural, social and career growth and development will manifest and cause her to evolve at a higher elevated level based on the natural alignments required for her to be the counter-part and helpmeet she is supposed to be with the man she is with and has submitted too..

And yet you can take the other sister from the same household, who chose to submit to some thugged out drug dealer, gangbanger, and jailbird who has no concept of original design and lives totally contrary to original design, and that woman will start to develop and evolve into the destructive mirror image of that man. She actually literally starts to “De-evolve” and become un-developed spiritually, culturally, socially, and even career growth. Even her IQ will diminish to reflect his IQ. Her career goals, even if she desires to be on a higher level, will only manifest at an even level with the man she is submitted to. And she will never understand why she is so in love with such a worthless man and can’t seem to break the bond or break away from such a person even if she knows he’s keeping her in such a debilitating state. She will in fact, in deception and blindness, mistake such strong bond as love, when in fact it’s just a physical feature of the laws of nature related to the science of soul ties that occur automatically when a man and woman have sex, whether it be out of love or lust and pleasure. And thus, rather than go through the emotional feeling of pain, broken heart and sadness that naturally occurs during a breakup or breaking of a bond, whether that bond is good or bad, she’d rather stay in the situation and justify staying using this false concept of love. She’d rather be lied to and pacified within her heart rather than break it, heal and prepare herself and her body to be submitted to the right man who’s going to elevate her and activate the Virtuous woman of Proverbs 31 in her life…

And so while the sister who submitted to the good and high-quality man is evolving to greatness, the other sister is just sitting on Facebook, miserable and mad at the world and failing at ever being great and simply settling and getting whatever she can get out of what’s available to her in life, because she is laying up with some thug, faith with a poverty of mind or lame lazy fool.

In the Torah, we see a perfect picture of the quality of women as it relates to the greatness or lack thereof of the man she is mastered over by. Ever wonder why Rachel and Leah had similar lives and were not much different in their spiritual, cultural, social, and purpose growth and development in their lives? Because both of them were married to the same man who was anointed by Elah to be the foundation of everything most of us live by even 5000 years later…

Yep, they shared the same man. Two sisters or women who share the same man, and submit fully will both be activated and start to develop, grow and be grounded in accordance to the level of the man they are designed to represent.

Take two women and place them under a pimp and what happens? They are activated and begin to evolve and grow towards the level of the man whom they represent. They become bonafide whores and prostitutes like they are supposed to become in accordance to the man whose foundation they build their lives upon….

That should have hit home base on the truth and facts.

Michelle Obama, Melania Trump & Jillian Biden are great because their husbands are Great. Many of you are worthless and living worthless destructive lives because of the worthless bum in your life or because you were never activated in the first place by virtue of being single.

As a woman, You and your quality are only as good as the man you are with.

Yes of course the saying “behind every good and strong man, is a good and strong woman” is very true…Yet her virtue(aka strength and empowerment) did not make the man great. It was his foundation and the essence of his being that activated her greatness, which in turn caused her to evolve into an original design,  that she is then able to “sustain, foster and ensure the continuance of his greatness”….Remember Adam was already great and walking in his purpose and design when Elah said it was not good for him to be alone and then created woman to be his counterpart. Still, it wasn’t until after Elah gave Adam the woman, that Adam was able to activate the divinity within him to “reproduce and multiply & prosper”, in the image and like of Elohim. In other words, neither the man nor the woman were activated and complete in being holistic according to their original design until they united and made a covenant relationship with each other. They in essence completed each other.

This is why Jewish wisdom says, “a man’s woman is his home, and a man without a woman is homeless no matter how big and furnished his house is..”  Notice she’s his home, not his house. Home is the environment, culture, and place where one dwells for security, rest, evolution, family building, and from where we all launch our purpose, calling, careers & anointings. It’s where we come back to after we’ve been out in the world and society fulfilling our responsibilities. Women take houses and creates the Home. That is when she’s walking and living according to the law of original design. Other women who live contrary to original design and have men who are failures at being proper foundations, never activate the nature within themselves to create homes. They just exist in apartments or houses… There is never a quality fulfillment of purpose and life.

That is why it’s utterly stupid to hear about and see women/girls turning down boys/men who are nerds that keep their heads in their studies and work hard to prepare themselves for college in order to become successful, empowered men according to their own unique purpose and calling, and these women turn around and chase after “Thugs and two bit hustlers” who will never become half the man of that nerd they turned down, and who will always be the ones to fall short of being a man. And yes going to jail is being a failed man, because engaging in behaviors that result in incarceration is a huge form of selfishness because they do not take into consideration the security and safety of the woman they have now had to abandon(and many times the children also) and the necessary provisions required to take care of your home and relationship, leaving them leaderless and everything without a covering and foundation. And women who stay faithful to these types of men are fools and deserve the horrible, unstable and chaotic lifestyles that begin to manifest in their lives, for holding on to such failed men. That man’s failures continue whether he’s physically present or not. As long as you stay faithful to whatever corrupt covenant you made with him, your ability to evolve will remain under his failures.

Self Esteem and Glory as it relates to the man a woman submits to

The other harsh truth is that the type of man you compromise with and submit to, ultimately reflects your level of self esteem & essence. Self-esteem/essence is exactly the same as “glory and mirror image”. Women with high self esteem/essence(aka high glory) see themselves as a quality woman with a high worth and value whose worthy of being able to reflect a high quality man she is able to be a helpmeet to. And with true high self esteem she indeed is able to do just as her worth and value mandates. A woman with low self esteem, see’s herself as only being able to get what she can get and find a man that’s simply easy to get without regard to value and purpose and who can simply pacify her and cover her emptiness and lack of purpose that is eating her up inside. Sex and woo woo talk is usually all it takes for women with low self esteem to be stupid enough to submit and then stay, while she see’s her life never elevating or going anywhere good..

Women with low self esteem either know they can never get a high quality man or are just stupid enough to reject a high quality man because she was taught wrong…..In fact low esteem women of low quality habitually avoid quality men.

Many of you women have had a good man, with high quality, try to come into your life, even when you really don’t deserve such a man, but because of false up-bringing or toxic logic and your having a lack of common sense and proper rationality, you simply rejected such a man and then had the nerve to speak to him and treat him in the same manner as you treat these dumb thugs that you claim are using you, don’t care about you and who you keep running after. And because of your dumb decisions, you literally have the door shut in your face, most of the time permanently, until you die and never find a high quality man even remotely on the level of the man you rejected. You are with that dumb weed smoking, alcohol drinking, gang banging thug that is either shacked up with you and don’t even see you as good enough to be a wife or perhaps is in Jail(or even shacked up with another woman) and can’t/don’t do anything even remotely right for you. Plus he has babies with other women, behind your back, that he couldn’t even be honest with you about.. And the list of foolishness, lies, deceit, drama and chaos goes on and on….

This is going to sting and it may not sit to well with many of you, especially because you are brainwashed, white-washed and just taught wrong to think in a stupid manner and think your stupidity is right and of value, but many times the man Elah had for you and could have been the key to your evolution towards greatness and activating the Proverbs 31 woman within you, which could have changed your life forever, might have been your biological COUSIN.

Numbers 36:5 And Mosheh commanded the children of Yisra’ĕl according to the word of יהוה, saying, “What the tribe of the sons of Yosĕph speaks is right.

Num 36:6 “This is the word which יהוה has commanded, for the daughters of Tselophḥaḏ, saying, ‘Let them marry who is good in their eyes, but let them marry only within the clan of their father’s tribe.’

Num 36:7 “And the inheritance of the children of Yisra’ĕl is not to change hands from tribe to tribe, for every one of the children of Yisra’ĕl is to cling to the inheritance of the tribe of his fathers.

Num 36:8 “And every daughter possessing an inheritance in any tribe of the children of Yisra’ĕl is to be the wife of one of the clan of her father’s tribe, so that the children of Yisra’ĕl possess each the inheritance of his fathers.

Num 36:9 “Thus the inheritance is not to change hands from one tribe to another, but every tribe of the children of Yisra’ĕl is to cling to its own inheritance.”

Num 36:10 As יהוה commanded Mosheh, so did the daughters of Tselophḥaḏ.


That is right. The Torah and divine law makes it clear that we are supposed to marry according to and within our own household and clan, meaning Elah’s first pick for your life, would be a cousin… You can digest it or spit it out, it doesn’t change the law of Elah not one bit…. And when you talk about 75-85% single unwed rates amongst western women, especially the black ones(who are the worst anyways), it’s clear the Curse of the Law, as defined in Deuteronomy 28, is in full effect, because it’s a SIN not to marry a cousin or your uncle..

Deut 28:14 “And do not turn aside from any of the Words which I am commanding you today, right or left, to go after other mighty ones to serve them.

Deu 28:15 “And it shall be, if you do not obey the voice of יהוה your Elohim, to guard to do all His commands and His laws which I command you today, that all these curses shall come upon you and overtake you……..”:

And so yeah, your life is a roller coaster, bi-polar, depressed, chaotic and stunted in any growth, development or true greatness because you reject Elah’s way and choose to do what YOU see right in YOUR own eyes, chasing after men whose foundations will never help you become great as a woman……

Deut 12:8 “Do not do as we are doing here today – each one doing whatever is right in his own eyes.”

And let me harshly condemn this foolish mentality of feminism that women have adopted where they have deceptively redefined success in that having their own money, car, apartment, home, job and career as single women, is some-how equated with fulfilling her purpose and calling in life….. If that were true, you wouldn’t be taking psychotic medicine just to cope and you wouldn’t be workaholic and depressed and angry one day, while the other you feel you are on top of the world and then back to square one….. You can have tons of material things, but what good is it to gain the whole world and yet lose your own soul/mind? And not living according to the law of original design is losing your own soul. Its call rapprochement and the Torah speaks explicitly about Women who have their own apparel, food and money and yet needs a man to take away their reproach:

Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, “We shall eat our own food and wear our own clothes; only let us be called by your name, to take away our reproach.”

Sometimes looking in the mirror at yourself is not going to tell you the truth of the problem, especially when you are the mirror. Most of you need to look at the man/men you allow between your legs and within your heart and emotions, and I can guarantee that you will find the roots of your problems and inability to evolve towards being a proverbs 31 woman… And trust me on this, there is no such thing as a decent woman whose not proverbs 31 verbatim. When you lack proverbs 31 in your life, it means you are a weak woman, with no true value or worth. A can of beans have more value than your life….Proverbs 31 women is a true empowered woman. She is activated in her original design.

If you decide to look around and there is no man in your life to look at to determine your problem, then you know that Elah has no vote of confidence in you. You are soo lacking in value and worth that even he won’t take you by the hand, as he did with Eve in the garden of Eden, and present you before one of his great and good men, that he hand picked and molded into his image and likeness. That says alot!!! If Elah doesn’t believe in you or value you enough to make you a helpmeet to a great man, then us men sure as hell are not going to value you either, as even in our righteousness we are only as good as the Eternal Creator we reflect in our lives.

And if you happen to look and you end up seeing another woman in your life, trying to imitate a relationship that Elah designed between a man and woman, and you are lesbian, then you are indeed the ultimate FAILED WOMAN. You are a living mistake, a distortion of nature & the law of physics who will never have a foundation and who will go to your grave as a compromised human being who was never fulfilled nor eve walked in your original design.

When it comes to polygany, which the Torah laws definitely prioritizes over monogamy, many of you are never going to be activated to fulfill original design, unless you learn to share..  A proverbs 31 woman, always has the heart of “I want for my sister what I want for myself..” Culturally speaking, especially for Judaism, Islam, Buddhism and Hinduism followers, if your sister or even cousin has a great man and of whom she has been activated to be great alongside with, and she wants you to share in that greatness, you’d be a fool not to accept the invitation. Jacob with Rachel and Leah, Isaac with Rebekhah, all of who were 1st cousins understood the laws of original design, and thus each woman has her own legacy of greatness by virtue of the man they loved and submitted too, and many times shared.

You can’t ever build your life without a man. You can never exceed the quality and worth of your man. You are a reflection of his greatness or his foolishness. You are either a helpmeet to righteousness or a Helpmeet and slave to pure evil. Your man is the key to your redemption or the root to your enslavement.

You do not have to accept this very essential Prophetic Jewish Torah based Biblical teaching and admonishment, but it will always be the objective truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth and you will always be measured by the facts and reality of the contents of this Letter….

Elah’s way may never be your way and his thought may never be your thoughts, but his Law that are set in motion to govern human behavior will always dictate how your life comes about, no matter what you think or feel.

Rethink. How did you end up with the worthless man you are with and who was the man of Value that you rejected after he poured his heart and emotions out to you and saw something in you worthy enough to be given a chance that you could not see yourself with? The man you rejected may be the man you have to go back and find and say yes, even if you have to share him and be a sister wife…..

Either way, we who are men will always be the natural originally designed mechanism that will forever define a woman’s quality and worth. You will always reflect us via your life for the good man or the bad man….You are the mirror.

Proverbs 18:22 He who has found a wife has found good, And receives favour from יהוה.

Deu 30:15 “See, I have set before you today life and good, and death and evil,

Deut 30:19 “I have called the heavens and the earth as witnesses today against you: I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. Therefore you shall choose life, so that you live, both you and your seed….

Genesis(Bereshit) 2:18 And
יהוה Elohim said, “It is not good for the man to be alone, I am going to make a helper for him, as his counterpart(mirror).”


Shalom Aliekom,

Dr. Shalomim Y. HaLahawi
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